Accepting & Committing To Change
Hey Ladiez,
When you make the decision to begin a journey of self-renewal you must first realize that it will not be easy. You must also understand that it will take 100% participation and dedication in order to achieve results. We recently discussed the first step on your path, recognizing the need for change. If you do not realize that there is a need for change there will be no improvement. The next steps are accepting and committing to change. Although we may be aware of the need for change in our lives it can be difficult actually accepting those changes. It’s more comfortable to live in your circumstances. We fear the unknown therefore we are slow to accept the changes we need. Accepting the fact that we need change is also admitting that we are not perfect. Although we all know that we are not perfect it is still very difficult to admit. However, as an adult you must learn to accept certain things even if they may be unpleasant. When it comes to committing to change this becomes difficult for some because it involves work and doing things differently. Many of us have commitment issues anyway so committing to something that you do not know the outcome of can be an obstacle for many. It amazes me how some people complain about the state of their lives but do not want to do anything to change their circumstances. If you are truly committed to change you will do anything in your power to achieve it. It bothers me to see some people put so much time and energy into negative activities that will do nothing for their personal development and slack off when it comes to doing something that will improve their lives. Commit to positive change and I guarantee you will be satisfied with the outcome.
