Open Letter of the Week

The #1 cause of dating drama is trusts issues and we disscussed that last week.  This week we will focus on the second major cause of dating drama which is people misrepresenting themselves at the beginning and during the relationship.   Of course, this can cause plenty of drama.  There are so many webistes and companies dedicated to gathering and providing information for people who fear that their partner or romantic interest is not being truthful.  People lie about their occupation, their age, and where they live.  In some severe cases some people lie about their name, relationship status, and even their sexual orientation.  Being lied to or misled about these kinds of things can cause many problems and drama.   People are dishonest about who they are for many reasons; two of those reasons are because they are not comfortable with who they are and because they have something to hide.  For whatever the reason they chose to lie, it doesn’t make it right.   If you are going through something like this or you suspect that your mate may be prepertrating a fraud you need to take action immediately.   If you know for a fact that you have been lied to you should end the relationship  as soon as you can because you can not build a solid relationship on lies.  No matter how long  you have been in the relationship if your partner misrepresented themsleves everything that you shared together was false.   If you suspect that someone that you are dating may be lying about who they are the first thing you should do is investigate.  Do what you can do find out as much as you can about them. If things do not seem right you should let go of that relationship.   You can not have a healthy relationship with someone if you don’t know exactly who they are.  To avoid the drama that could develop from an unstable relationship the best thing to do is to just cut all ties completely and move on.  Continuing in a realtionship with someone who could not be truthful about who they are will only bring you years of problems and drama.  As you continue on your journey to find the love of your life please remember to be careful and beware of liars and losers who can’t even bear to be themselves.

This article was written in springnote.